Saturday, September 8, 2012

COMPETENT COMMUNICATOR

When I think of an individual who demonstrates competent communication with a particular context my father immediately comes to mind. My father is and has been well respected for his values, beliefs, personal qualities. For as long as I can remember my father has always been the family member to whom others approach to receive wisdom, guidance, and advice, all of which my father has been known to label “food for thought”. Behaviors that my father exhibit that qualifies him as an effective competent communicator are self respect, respect for others, and essential communication skills including consistent eye contact with the individual with whom he is speaking, effective listening during conversations, and ability to articulate himself respectfully and professionally in all circumstances. I admire my father’s communication behaviors and inspired to model these behaviors within my personal and professional life. I often struggle in effectively communicating within my personal and professional life; typically suppressing my feelings and/or opinions and refraining from addressing my primary concerns with those who are the focus of these concerns. Incorporating my father’s communication behaviors combined with effective communication skills outline within this course will foster an increased confidence, awareness, and production of effective communication within all aspects of my life

5 comments:

  1. Hi Timesha, I believe to be a competent communicator is a gift! That is wonderful that your father is an excellent communicator. Your dad is a role model to help your struggle with effective communication. He can teach you how to articulate effective communication skills.

    Thanks for Sharing!
    Andrea

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    1. Hi Tinisha, sorry for mispelling your name.

      Andrea

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  2. Tinisha,
    I like how you chose your father as an effective communicator. My father is a pastor, and it has been an amazing experience to watch him grow as an individual. His communication skills get better and better because he learns on a daily basis.
    Arica

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  3. Tinisha,
    It seems that you also have the gift of communication as your father. When you described him, I could sense your love and respect. Thank you for sharing!

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  4. Hi Tinisha:

    Kudos to you for admitting that you are working on your communication. I believe we all are in some way. Like I said on Arica's post, if I had it all together, then I probably wouldn't be in this class. So we're here for a reason! That is such a blessing that you look up to your father that way. Make sure you continue to cherish him. Mine passed away in January and I miss him everyday. At times, I feel that if we would have communicated more, he would still be here. But the Good Lord knows best so I try not to go there. So with that being said, the fact that you have that male role model who is an effective communicator is totally awesome! I wish I had more of that in my past life. However, we must learn to work with what we have in our present lives. Great post!

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